Brett Butler
Sunday, February 26, 2006

My Pretend Father

Darren McGavin died today.  I only knew him during the week we worked together when he played my father on a show I was on.  It was such an honor seeing him there; pinch myself time.   He was intense and knew the comedy at once, that fast and real.  And when people call someone a 'pro', I think it means the same in any industry.  In mine, it means to not just show up but know the lines and be present.  That he was.  Mostly, though, I remember how he and his wife, who died a few years ago, would look at each other whenever they could.  They finished each others' sentences before any were spoken.  And it wasn't boring and they were far from bored.  I remember, too, wanting what they had.  And now, not so far away, they have it some more.  I am sending his kids - his real ones -  not his pretend daughter for a week on tv - a hug and thanks for knowing their dad.
 
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